I think it is a bigger problem if somebody takes drugs than if they drink, but the people that take drugs don't normally behave as bad as people who drink. Drunks get pretty violent and evil at times - drugtakers mostly only get stupid, but relatively harmless.

That was my point

Don't intend to generalize here

Q1... Are men useful??

Of course we are - can a vibrator mow the lawn or sort the fusebox? I don't think so.

Q2..  DO men ever consider womens feelings?

Yes, of course we do. We tap you on the head at the last minute, don't we???

Q3...If men know they have done something  REALLY wrong... and they dont try to make amends are they arse's?

Dunno, it's never been an issue.

Q3... which is worse..... to cheat on someone...to lie to someone ..to take advantage of someone ( to the extremes of doing things a woman doesnt want them to do )

Cheat. Lying can always be backtracked, and taking advantage cannot be done. We've tried.

Q4....  Which is worse in  men - those that drink  or those that take substances that is not legal ( lets say )

It depends upon how they act in each circumstance. Some people can drink like a fish and be perfectly reasonable, yet become total arseholes when stoned (let's say). And vice versa. And the same is true of women.

Q5.....which is the laziest sex - male or female?

Men, definitely. We are happy to just lie there and let you get on with it.

DISCLAIMER: Some of my responses were sarcastic. Please don't judge me by these responses alone.

So the conclusion to this thread :

Arses ot total stars ?

Total stars ! Definitely !